Listen to your gut feeling of excitement!

To be an intuitive woman you have to start with the feeling and emotion of genuine excitement. Think about the sensations you feel in your body when something amazing happens. Words like elevation, buzz, adventure, thrill and passion fill this space. These emotions are your soul body's way of saying “YES, this is what I am about!! Go this direction!”

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For me it's like a smile that comes over my face when I am alone, my whole body vibrates and I feel like a grand adventure is beginning. If an idea or opportunity comes up for you and this type of emotion occurs, then you are in your knowing instinctual body. 

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Encourage yourself to go that direction. You'll find that it will be the path of least resistance and that energetic flow will take you in a direction with ease. Pursue it! Keep going! Use this elevated energy to carry you further to the next step and springboard yourself onward. Don’t allow your rational mind to talk you out of an opportunity that enlivens you. This is a woman’s intuition telling her she’s on the right path.

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Intuitive woman has a keen eye for feeling of danger.

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Feeling danger is like feeling really, really nervous. You can recognize it with a quick heartbeat, sweating and an urgent need to avoid a situation or someone. Feeling and recognizing danger is your greatest ally in keeping your body and others safe. Being able to understand when this emotion shows its face is an important part of being an intuitive woman.

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These days, our sense of fear is so stunted by the way the world operates around us. With incredible amounts of digital distraction and constant overload it's easy to miss the intuitive fear response. “Stop being so sensitive”, “You’re overreacting”, “C'mon it’s just for fun”,  are some of the responses you might hear in your head or from other people when you are having a fear response. This is also often referred to as gaslighting, which is a form of manipulation that undermines your perception of reality, often by trying to make you feel like you’re making a big deal out of nothing. If you’re experiencing this often in your life, it might be time to set some healthy boundaries.

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The brain is constantly observing and tallying up what is happening in our environments and when there are tiny, slight deviations from “normal”, it flags these and starts sending signals, and we need to be able to listen and feel for these signals. For example, a car driving a little weird, strangers walking straight toward you, the tone in someone's voice, a weather shift. The brain will flag this and send signals throughout the body. Sweating, a quick heart beat, a feeling in your stomach. 

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When you have these sensations, open your eyes a little wider. Listen and look around you. Determine what is making you feel nervous and start evaluating the situation quickly. Learn to use your voice! Speak up and be insistent that you need to remove yourself from a situation immediately and if someone complains and tries to shame you, fuck em’ and keep walking! you're on your way to become a strong intuitive woman!

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The sense that you are unwell is also an intuitive woman's instinct kicking in.

Personally, I find this one the most difficult instinct in intuitive woman. Only because when I do feel sick, or just not right, I end up at the doctors and so then it's like I need to PROVE that I don’t feel good.

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I could easily give you 20 solid examples in my life over the past 10 years of being brushed off by medical professionals, friends and family as hysterical, overreacting, stupid, silly, unsubstantiated, neurotic, overbearing, ridiculous, too much, annoying, I could go on and on. (I’m a white middle class woman who benefits from a public healthcare system; I can’t even imagine what it must be like if you are non-white and in an area with private healthcare…for fuck sakes!)

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Step one here is to learn to advocate for yourself and learn about the system you're in. Understand how to find the help you need and speak up for your needs. Don't stop until you find someone who is listening.

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Starting from childhood, we learn that vocalizing our body’s needs with our voice is a way to find help. If your needs were ignored as a kid you may feel like no one is hearing you. Again, you need to learn to speak up for your body. Keep searching until you feel like someone is listening. 

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Your body's intuition is so incredible! It's giving you clues and information on how to navigate its processes every millisecond!  Make the most of that gorgeous sack of flesh you have and listen to its cues. Campaign for it! VOTE EMBODY your body!

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The gut feeling you’re meant to be with someone.

The final instinct is the feeling being drawn to someone. I love this one, (mostly because it reminds me of my lover 😉). 

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Do you know the feeling of instantly liking someone? “I NEED TO BE FRIENDS WITH HER!”, or “I love being around this person, they make me happy! Being magnetically drawn to someone is the best FLOW. Easy, warm, expansive, funny, inspiring, open, forgiving, creative, special, unique and formative are words that would describe these people to you. 

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This is the instinctual flow of being drawn to someone. There is something here that your soul needs to learn with this person and you NEED to go towards it. So go for it and have fun! These divine encounters do not need to be long, they can last minutes or even lifetimes but each of them is equally important. Allow yourself the gift of falling in love with as many people as possible so you can experience all there is to experience as an intuitive woman. 

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